… and frankly, the entire notion that marriage is the equivalent of female oppression and slavery is belied by the hand-wringing from pundits across the political spectrum clamoring that women want husbands and men aren’t doing their duty and dragging themselves to the altar. If marriage is a form of slavery for WOMEN, why is it women who still desire marriage? And if it’s an institution devised to benefit men, why is it MEN who are avoiding it like the plague? [Owning your shit]
In this day and age the institution of marriage is looking more and more like a mugs game. I thought I would do a quick post outlining a couple of reason to avoid it like the plague.
1. You will become less attracted to each other
Generally we value what we work to get, a lot of game theory is based around the point of ‘playing hard to get’ so that the other person value you more. Getting married kills this dead, “okay you got me I’m yours forever.…”
2. Less sex
The longer a relationship the less often a couple will have sex, when first couples get together the initial passion means they are in and out the sack constantly, however as time goes on it become a mundane routine which become less and less regular.
3. Massive hand over of power to the women
Feminisms has changed marriage massively and made it considerable easier to gain a divorce. After which the women would standardly be given custody of the children, along with half your money and a child support each month.
Often women will be financially motivated to leave you, say you have more money than the women in the marriage however he is not spending it in the manner which she like. Then she has the option of leaving you taking half and also taking an ongoing child support.
4. After marriage women tend to put on weight
After marriage women tend to let themselves go. Hey they have caught you why should they bother looking after themselves?
5. Being a Husband is no longer a respectable role
Being a husband or a father is no longer a respected role model, now the fathers are stupid chumps that the intelligent respectful wife needs to put up with.
6. Marriage provides no security
Marriage provide you no security. Financially, emotionally or legally. They are tons of laws that support women in every way women can beat you up with impunity, and you can even get sued you for not sleeping with them. Even now they are putting forward law that mane using Logic against women can be a classed as abuse. These examples are the extreme but thanks to the Gender Empathy Gap, men and women both naturally are inclined to side with women and in law this has manifested itself in some terrible ways.
7. Women no longer required to look after the home
In the past gender roles were more defined, men were expected to be the bread winner and women were expected to look after the home and children. Now the expectation for women to look after the home is gone, it is sexist to expect this of a woman, however a women attraction to a man is based on his competence and ability to provide (even late 30 feminists want a guy who earn as much or more than her in order to be attracted to them). So guys are still expected to be the primary bread winner and women no longer have no obligation to provide housekeeping services in exchange.